Conversation between multiple generations can be challenging. A survey, conducted by Home Instead Senior Care, provides some insight on how Baby Boomers and their parents are communicating on issues that affect both the adult child and the older parent.
The Home Instead survey reported that 22% of the adult children found their parents are too independent. The 40-70 Rule was suggested to help address some of the age-related issues. Conversations about independence issues such as home help and driving should begin when the adult child is 40 or the parent is 70 years of age.
These discussions should also address the minimalization of clutter for health and safety reasons as well as the disposition of family heirlooms and special mementos. Decision-making can become overwhelming and is often coupled with periods of other stress. Sibliling relationships come into play as well.
A professional organizer is a neutral individual who can work with adult children and their parents to systematically review how household items and keepsakes will serve family members or others.
How might a professional organizer help resolve your inter-generational family challenges?
Bringing in a professional organizer can be a really good idea because they are not emotionally involved. They can handle things from a rational standpoint and this helps to decrease tension in the family.
Posted by: Sarah Nanny | April 28, 2011 at 05:28 PM
Wow, thanks so much for the tips on how to take care of my parents, especially that 40/70 rule. We're getting pretty close to that. My dad is 67 so I'll start talking to him about getting involved with a senior care franchise since I can't be around to take care of him all the time. Thanks again!
Posted by: Gary Neal | December 15, 2011 at 09:44 AM
Open communication is important! Thanks for the comments.
Posted by: Ellen Hankes | December 15, 2011 at 09:56 AM